HELP....

Ok so I'm not very good at this blogging thing. I have spent some time now trying to find cute layouts for my page. I cant find them. Does anyone know where i can find them at? I also need to know how to add my Friends. I bet its pretty simple but I'm having Little trouble with it. ha ah So any help would be great!!! Ill keep playing around to see if i can figure it out.... THANKS!!!